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On Finding The Love For My Postpartum Body

The story of a pink dress, the postpartum body that it would never fit, and a new sense of love and acceptance for being larger and softer than before. Because my body is amazing and it deserves a dress that fits

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Parenting & Pregnancy

Self Care Suggestions for Sleep Deprived Parents

Sleep is a precious resource for parents, and one that is often in short supply! Here are a few of my gentle suggestions for self-care for the sleep deprived.

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Living Slowly

Indiana Jones and Jo Malone (or how I deal with my fear of flying)

I’m not sure when I started to hate flying.

I don’t mean the endless queuing at airports, being confined in close quarters with ill-smelling strangers, or the boredom of flying long haul. I mean the crippling panic I experience every time I part company with the ground.

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Afternoon Stories

Monthly inspiration and support for storytellers

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  • Whenever I am out and about with Ben the following exchange seems to happen, enough that it's stopped being funny. "Oh what a beautiful little girl! Boy? Girl. Boy. Girl? Boy? Boy. Girl? Girl. Boy?" I see the panic building in their eyes, the staccato voice getting higher as the words become less a question and more an uncontrollable nervous twitch. I try to help. "Child?" I suggest. "Person?" I think it's Ben's hair that confuses people. Red gold copper fire that I can't bring myself to cut. Because I'm not going to subject him to a process he would hate to make some random strangers feel more comfortable when playing guess the genitalia on the baby (which when you strip away the nonsense of gender is what that question is). So please stop trying to categorise my child or any child by a gender binary based on nonsense. Allow them a personhood that isn't defined by what organs they were or were not born with. Get comfortable with addressing children in gender neutral terms - "they" "them" "person" "people" "child". I deeply believe that this is the first step to accepting a child as the whole human that they are, free of expectation to be anything other than themselves. Plus you won't get a lecture on gender bullshit from me in the supermarket, so everyone is a winner!
  • Five months without a grid post, and there is so much on my mind that I have caption paralysis! So this post is a bit like ripping of a plaster, publishing something, anything, just to get the feel again. Peeking out from between the curtains. Or the bird hide in this case. . Over the past few months I've actually found a more natural fit on Stories, as it often feels more like a conversation and less of a broadcast (depending on how you do it of course). I'll be slowly seeping back into this grid over the coming weeks I think, but as always it will be at my own pace. I've been owning my introversion for a while, but I'm ready to be a bit more world-facing again.
  • The sweetest part of my day is watching him explore outside. We've been hit by so much seasonal lurgy round here that moving slowly has been a matter of survival, and there's nothing like gently trundling along in his wake as he potters around the garden to lift the spirits. Stomping on the crunchy leaves, watering plants (that really don't need watering but what can I tell you, he's the boss!), and poking into all the corners. Oh, and watching for trains. Don't believe anything the property programmes tell you, buying a house next to a railway cutting is a great investment for a toddler. He would stand by the gap in the hedge and wait for the Guildford commuter trains ALL DAY. The house was built next to the cutting in 1902, and every now and again as if to remind us of that heritage a steam engine comes thundering past. When that happened I thought he would explode with happiness. He is my son through and through. .. [Image description: A copper-haired toddler with big brown eyes is peeping through the bottom pane of a shed window]
  • Not sure who I was channeling when I took this picture. It feels a bit like a late 90s/early noughties album cover, from that time when actors were deserting TV soaps in droves to release mediocre pop singles. Full disclosure, thirteen year old Lizzy had a shrine to Adam Rickett on her bedroom wall comprised mostly of pages torn from Smash Hits magazine. Those were the days. . [Image description: Lizzy is sitting on the ground looking at the camera, wearing blue dungarees and looking a bit moody and introspective]
  • How do you create a home? What makes a space a home? For me it will always been a sense of slowness and peace. A space that has been allowed to grow and evolve over time, that has moulded itself around you and your family like an old, comfy sofa. Our home has been three years in the making now and it brings me so much joy. Creating a home together (and then bringing a small person into it) has been a test of our creativity and ingenuity, and I see our triumphs and our joys in every corner. We still have a lot of work to do. A lot of moth-eaten carpet to remove, old floorboards to restore, questionable paint choices to put right. But underneath the shabby covering is something that could be so magical, and I can't wait to get started again. [Image description: A white painted mantlepiece holding a green maranta plant, a small succulent, a brass plant mister, and a clock. A mirror framed in grey wood hangs above, reflecting a large bright window and a beige wicker lampshade.]
  • Staying still for photographs is never going to happen ever 😊 Nothing much to say for myself today. We have a big family-filled weekend ahead of us celebrating birthdays and catching up after a long time apart. This little scamp is going to have the time of his life running rings around his grandparents, and I might just get to sit down! Life is pretty good. Have an amazing weekend my loves, and I will catch you on the flipside. [Image description: Lizzy is standing on the pebble shoreline laughing and holding tightly to baby Ben, who is trying to escape.]
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